For the Chief - Resources for Your Entire Fire Department
Families and marriages are under stress in the fire service. Many departments are stepping up to offer behavioral services through their Employee Assistance Programs, but many times it is too late.
When surrounded by supportive resources, marriages thrive. Although statistical numbers vary, they all show an increase in the effectiveness of receiving help, especially early on prior to relationship issues becoming insurmountable.
One goal as a department is to develop a strong family support network from the beginning. By doing this, families have access to have the right resources for the small stuff, before it turns into the big stuff. Sometimes an understanding ear and a different perspective will help a couple through the little things before they pile up into damaging conversations, spilling over into the firefighter’s job.
Personally, our family struggled to make the fire life fit into the Monday through Friday, 9-5 world the kind-hearted friends from church, school, the neighborhood, and even extended family were a part of. Having another fire family to receive support and have fellowship with fills the void that comes with being a part of the fire life.
Healthy marriages and supportive families also keep your firefighters focused on the job, not on issues at home. A fire department who supports those families is one who is appreciated, not resented, for all the time away from family and loved ones a firefighter spends while working.
24/7 Commitment is on a mission to honor, strengthen and support marriage and family for first responders and the best way for us to do that is when you share these resources in your department.
A Chief or Officer who understands the stress of the fire life, is a well loved chief by his crew and their families.
Some Easy Ways To Share This With Your Department
For an example of an letter you can send to your department
Click here for an memo from Dan and Lori Mercer to the chiefs.
Printable Hand Outs and Station Signs
For a flyer to describe all of our programs to share with your officers, administrators or union, use this one which describes the Online communities, Marriage On Fire, the H.O.T. for Marriage training, and the ultimate guide to Fire Family Life, Honor and Commitment. For a flyer specific to the Department Subscription to Marriage On Fire, use this one. For a sign to print and hang in each station describing our online communities, use this one.
Place this information on your department website...
Sponsor a Couple to Earn Their Fire Marriage Certification at One of Our 24/7 Commitment Weekends
You can also choose to sponsor a couple to attend one of our premier events, the COMMITMENT Weekends, where couples get away together in a fun environment to just focus on each other for 48 hours in the company of other fire couples doing the same. They participate in crew activities, not boring or conference-like sessions, with Dan and Lori Mercer and members of the Honor Guard and Fire Wife Sisterhood. They get all decked out for a hot date night at the COMMITMENT BALL. Then they close out the weekend with the HONOR GUARD GAMES, where couples complete fire-related activities, such as forcible entry on doors and drywall breaching, together.